我终于了解。。。 - I've learned

我终于了解 -
你无法强迫别人爱你；
你所能做的，是使自己成为可爱的人，
其他的，则不是你所能决定的。
I've learned -
that you cannot make someone love you;
All you can do is be a person who can be loved,
the rest, is out of your control.


我终于了解 -
不论我如何付出关怀，
有些人，就是无动于衷。
I've learned -
that no matter how much I care I gave,
some people would just dont care.


我终于了解 -
建立信任，需费时多年；
但只需几秒，就能摧毁它。
I've learned -
that it takes years to build up trust;
but only seconds to destroy it.


我终于了解 -
重要的不是你一生中拥有了什么东西；
而是你一生中，拥有了什么人。
I've learned -
that it's not what thing you have in your life counts;
but who you have in your life.


我终于了解 -
你可以藉由魅力达到目的，
但只能维持15分钟；
此后，你最好有些真材实料。
I've learned -
that you can only use your charm for about 15 minutes;
After that, you'd better know something.


我终于了解 -
你不该拿自己和别人的最佳表现相比；
而应该和自己的最佳表现相比。
I've learned -
that you shouldn't compare to the best others can do;
but compare to the best you can do.


我终于了解 -
你在瞬间所作的事，
可以叫你心痛一辈子。
I've learned -
that you can do something in an instant
and make yourself regret for life.


我终于了解 -
重要的不是发生在人们身上的事，
而是他们对那事的反应。
I've learned -
that it's not what happens to others matter;
but how they react to it.


我终于了解 -
不论你切多薄，
事情总是具有两面。
I've learned -
that no matter how thin you slice it,
there are always 2 sides.


我终于了解 -
需要经历很长很长的日子，
才能使我成为我想要成为的人。
I've learned -
that it's taking me a very very long time,
to become the person I want to be.